Why Should I Resist Pornography and Sexualised Culture?
We live in a world that constantly pushes sexual messages through media, advertising, social networks, and entertainment. Pornography and sexualised content promise excitement and acceptance but instead lead to shame, emptiness, and a distorted view of people and relationships.
Jesus calls his followers to live counter to the world’s patterns: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Resisting pornography is not just about self-control—it’s about loving God with all your heart and treating others with dignity and purity.
When you follow God’s design for sex and relationships, you protect your heart, your mind, and your future marriage. You also free yourself from influences that damage self‑worth and trap you in guilt and secrecy. Resisting sexualised culture shows strength, maturity, and respect for both yourself and others.
What Is Wrong with Pornography?
Pornography is harmful because it twists God’s good gift of sex into something selfish and unreal. It teaches that people exist for pleasure instead of love and commitment. It feeds lust and greed and makes it harder to experience real intimacy and trust.
Porn also supports industries that exploit others—many performers are exploited, trafficked, or pressured into the work. Watching porn fuels that harm. Spiritually, it draws you away from God, isolating you in shame and secrecy. Jesus warns that lust in the heart is sin because it treats people as objects, not as image‑bearers of God (Matthew 5:28).
Porn doesn’t satisfy; it only increases loneliness and addiction. Understanding this helps you see why resisting is an act of faith, integrity, and love.
How Do I Get Off Porn?
Breaking free from pornography is possible. Change takes courage, support, and daily discipline. Here are essential steps:
- Be honest. Admit your struggle before God. Ask for forgiveness and help.
- Get accountable. Talk to a trusted youth leader, mentor, or pastor. Bring the issue into the light—it loses power when you stop hiding it.
- Use safeguards. Set up filtering or accountability software on your devices. Remove apps, devices, or triggers that lead to temptation.
- Replace habits. Fill your time with spiritual growth and meaningful activities—pray, read Scripture, serve others, exercise, and rest well.
- Join a recovery program. The Resist Program provides step‑by‑step guidance, community support, and practical strategies to help you rebuild healthy patterns.
- Be patient. Change takes time. Every small step toward purity strengthens your heart and mind.
God’s grace is stronger than guilt. Through prayer, accountability, and persistence, you can find freedom and start again.
How Can I Help Influence My Friends and Culture?
You have power to influence your friends and shape the culture around you. Following Jesus means living differently in how you speak, behave, and treat others. Here’s how you can make a difference:
- Set an example. Live with integrity online and offline. Others will notice your respect and confidence.
- Speak the truth. When topics of porn or sexual jokes come up, share why you choose purity and self‑respect.
- Support your friends. If someone confides their struggle, listen without judgment. Encourage them to seek help rather than hide.
- Use your voice online. Promote positive, respectful content. Avoid sharing or liking anything that objectifies people.
- Pray for your generation. Ask God to strengthen young people to live with purity and courage in a culture that normalises sin.
You are not alone. God calls and equips young believers to be light in dark places. By resisting pornography and living for Christ, you can inspire others to do the same and help build a culture that honours God and values every person.